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THIS IS SO TRUE! Time goes WAY too fast!!

The Last Time


From the moment you hold your baby in your arms,
you will never be the same.
You might long for the person you were before,
When you have freedom and time,
And nothing in particular to worry about.

You will know tiredness like you never knew it before,
And days will run into days that are exactly the same,
Full of feedings and burping,
Nappy changes and crying,
Whining and fighting,
Naps or a lack of naps,
It might seem like a never-ending cycle.

But don’t forget …
There is a last time for everything.
There will come a time when you will feed
your baby for the very last time.
They will fall asleep on you after a long day
And it will be the last time you ever hold your sleeping child.

One day you will carry them on your hip then set them down,
And never pick them up that way again.
You will scrub their hair in the bath one night
And from that day on they will want to bathe alone.
They will hold your hand to cross the road,
Then never reach for it again.
They will creep into your room at midnight for cuddles,
And it will be the last night you ever wake to this.

One afternoon you will sing “the wheels on the bus”
and do all the actions,
Then never sing them that song again.
They will kiss you goodbye at the school gate,
The next day they will ask to walk to the gate alone.
You will read a final bedtime story and wipe your last dirty face.
They will run to you with arms raised for the very last time.

The thing is, you won’t even know it’s the last time
Until there are no more times.
And even then, it will take you a while to realize.

So while you are living in these times,
remember there are only so many of them
and when they are gone, you will yearn for just one more day of them.
For one last time.

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Dear Peanut,

Before you were born, your father and I loved watching Adam Ruins Everything videos on YouTube. We still watch them from time to time. This one is a gem.


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Dear Peanut,

Back in December 2017, I wrote back-to-back posts about the breastfeeding drama (it was more of a breakdown, really) we had at NICU a few days after you were born. You can read it here, here, and here. Then I wondered, why are there no support groups for new mothers who give both breastmilk and formula milk. Later on, I found out why (sheesh).

I pitched my blog posts to Smart Parenting and they asked if they can feature my posts on their website and we agreed. I took screenshots of the article posted on Smart Parenting so we can show them to you when you grow up. It's funny how your parents are always on Cosmo.ph (you can read the feature here, here, here, and here) and now, here's your debut with Smart Parenting. Baka kapag teenager ka na sa Candy Cuties ka naman, haha. 





xoxo,

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Dear Peanut,

Last December 2017, I found this article online. It's an open letter to new parents and it made me cry. Ito yung time na bangag na bangag kami ni SC with all the baby tasks. Ito yung time na takot na takot kaming magkamali sa mga ginagawa saiyo. Ito yung kasagsagan ng sleep deprivation, fatigue, and natural high with all the milestones we are all going through.

During this time, I can still feel the post-surgery pain and I couldn't really move around because my body was still healing. You were so tiny during this time and feeding every 2 hours.

Ito rin yung kasagsagan ng breastfeeding misadventures ko and probably a brush with post-partum depression because you wouldn't latch even if I followed all the instructions, tips, tricks, comments, suggestions, and probably voodoo (like brushing my boobies with a comb) about breastfeeding.

Then I found this letter and it was so beautiful. I'm sharing this here so you can read it when you grow up. We will put in the blog all the videos and articles that gave your father and me knowledge, inspiration, and laughs as you grow up (because even if the internet is forever, websites can shut down).

Dear Mummy and Daddy
Please keep this letter from me in a place where you can read it and re-read it when things are rough and you are feeling down.
 Please don’t expect too much from me as a new born baby, or too much from yourselves as parents. Give us both six weeks as a birthday present, six weeks for me to grow, develop, mature, and become more stable and predictable – six weeks for you to rest and relax and allow your body to get back to normal.
Please feed me when I am hungry, I never knew hunger in your womb and clocks and time mean little to me.
 Please hold, cuddle, kiss, touch, stroke and croon to me. I was always held closely in your womb and have never been alone before.
Please forgive me if I cry a lot. I am not a tyrant who was sent to make your life miserable, the only way I can tell you I am not happy is with my cry, bear with me and in a short time, as I mature, I will spend less time crying and more time socializing.
 Please take the time to find out who I am, how I differ from you and how much I can bring to you. Watch me carefully and I’ll tell you things which sooth, console and please me.
Please remember that I am resilient and can withstand the many natural mistakes you’ll make with me. As long as you make them with love, I cannot be harmed.
Please don’t be disappointed when I am not the perfect baby you expected nor be disappointed with yourselves when you are not the perfect parents.
Please take care of yourself; eat a balanced diet, rest, and exercise so that when we are together, you have the patience and energy to take care of me. The cure for a fussy baby is more rest for Mum.
 Please take care of your relationship with each other. What good is family bonding if there is no family left for me to bond with.
Keep the “big picture” in mind. I’ll be like this for a very short time, though it seems like forever to you now. Although I may have turned your life upside down, please remind yourselves that things will be back to normal before long. 
Enjoy me – I’ll never be this little again!

We love you so much, anak. It still amazes us how someone so tiny can take up so much space in our home (and in our hearts). <3

xoxo,


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Dear Peanut,

Today, we did an Amazing Race-style day trip at TMC. Nothing serious, thank God. They were all scheduled checkups but I wanted to emphasize how it ended up feeling like a race because it tested your parents’ project and time management skillz (yes, with a ‘z’, hahaha).

We left home at around 11:30 am and reached TMC a few minutes before 12nn. We needed to go to the HMO office first to swipe our new cards (Yey! You and I used our HMO cards for the first time, thank you to your daddy’s very generous company!) and get prepare the paperwork. I told SC to head straight to Dra.CTP’s clinic because the line there is always a “blockbuster” one.

HMO Guy: Ma’am ilang doctors po ang kailangan ninyo?
Me: Madami.

I gave him the list of all the doctors we had to see today complete with our concerns and scheduled activities. We needed to see 4 (Pedia and Allergist for you; EENT for your daddy, and orthopedic for me). The HMO guy was surprised (in a good way) but we managed to get everything in less than 10 minutes.

PEDIA: It’s official (once again), you’re fat.

Dra.CTP that your current weight is good for a 5-month-old baby already. You’re currently 4 months and 19 days old. But no need to go on a diet, sheesh, just pace the feeding.

And it seems you really have a thing for pretty ladies. Whenever you see one, you’d squirm and smile and twist and basically do this cutiepie thing so your pedia was really entertained by you. When we pulled down your pants to get ready for the vaccine shot, you’re all smiles but when you realized what was happening, nabingi na naman kaming lahat sa iyak mo.

So the crying knocked you out and you slept for quite some time while we had lunch at Pancake House. At one point, you faked your sleep but was probably too tired to cry again. There were female interns beside our table and you did the cutiepie thing again that earned you some praises.  Show off, hahaha.

After lunch, we headed straight to your allergist and she confirmed what we suspected all along—you have atopic dermatitis (AD), also known as atopic eczema, which you inherited from both of us, but mostly from me because I have a family history of skin asthma. Nothing serious, yours is a mild case. We just need better lotion and moisturizer to keep your skin hydrated and keep the flare-ups at bay. In short, maarte ka din sa balat like me.

To save time, you and your father waited together for his turn at the EENT clinic while I did the leg work and paperwork for my requested knee X-rays. I was waiting for my turn at the X-ray room when you father sent me an SMS.

SC: Babe, nasaan ka na? Dito na doctor. Peanut is with the receptionist.
QB: Hala, tulog ba? Nakapila ako sa X-ray.
SC: Hindi, I can hear him kicking up a fuss.
QB: Oh no, sige pupunta na ako diyan.
SC: But mukhang okay na.

So I bolted from the seat and ran straight back to the elevators. God paved the way and I got the express elevator that got me from the ground floor to the 14th floor in less than 3 minutes.

When I arrived at the EENT clinic, one of the receptionists was carrying you and you have this resting bitch-semi shocked face that probably said, “I don’t know who you are but you’re warm, you’re soft (she was a bit on the chubby side) and where the hell is my mother?!?!?!”

At that moment, I didn’t panic that a stranger was holding my child. It only hit me now that I shouldn’t have allowed that. Anyway, we just laughed about afterwardrds, chalking it up to the kindness of strangers but I will never do that ever again. OH MY GOD, KINILABUTAN AKO JUST NOW.

After spending nearly 6 hours at TMC and blazing through 4 checkups, we checked out the TMC cafeteria bought a doner and a donut (which we rarely eat) because we fucking deserve it.

This day has completely depleted my energy that I slept in the car on our way back home. I was so tired that I almost snapped at the HYPEBEAST-looking teenage batang hamog girls who were in my way, blocking the entrance to the elevators. The short nap snapped me out of it and now it’s back to work.
I wrote this now because I want to chronicle how this day went well. Sharing with this scene at the clinic earlier:

I walked into the clinic of an orthopedic whose wife is a plastic surgeon.

SC: (opened the door, he and Peanut were outside, waiting): Honey! Magpapa-plastic surgery ka???
QB:  (while the secretary was busy typing my information into the computer): Sira, yung orthopedic ang pupuntahan ko, hindi yung plastic surgeon. Bakit akala mo breast augmentation no?
SC: Hindi, akala ko papaayos mo na yung mukha mo eh.

One of these days, I swear, sasampalin ko yang tatay mo in his sleep. Two years ago, he was snoring really loudly and I kicked him off the bed. He fell and when he asked me what happened, I told him baka nanaginip lang sya. At naniwala naman.

xoxo,


Update (as of March 29, 2018): Changed my codename from Queen Bitch (QB) to Tiger Mom (TM).


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Dear Peanut,

We just survived your first-ever sinat (low-grade fever). My god, the sleep deprivation, the fatigue, the body pains (ours!), and the anxiety. It sucks to feel helpless, knowing that we really can't do anything but soothe you and watch you closely through the night. I mean, even if I whispered to your ears over and over na “sa akin nalang ang sinat mo, anak”, that’s not possible, really.

It started in the morning when your dad noticed that you felt a bit warm to the touch. I was still half-asleep that morning but I heard that your temperature was somewhere near 37.5° C. When I got up, we gave you your first dose of CALPOL®. Dra.CTP gave it to us after your first vaccination in case you develop a fever, but you didn’t.

I had meetings set that day and I thought if I should cancel them because you were sick. The mom-guilt started but I figured, it’s just a slight fever and we gave you medicine already.

Your daddy was in charge that day, YayaL was here, and your LolaMama was due for a visit so it was a full house. Ang daming magbabantay saiyo. SC said I should go and take my much-needed day out with your RamenAunties. So, after giving you a bath (na dapat pala sponge bath lang), I left clear instructions and went to Pasig home first to have lunch with your grandparents.

Throughout the lunch, dinner, and after-dinner coffee that day, we’ve been monitoring your temperature and activities (as instructed by Dra.CTP). She said viral infections (not sure if it was a viral infection) could last a few days. Your body temperature kept on fluctuating between a high 36-point-something° C and mid 37-point-something ° C. You also ate less (you’re used to eating between 90ml and 120ml) and seemed weak so your father had to contain my praning mother hormones from exploding.

That night, we kept checking your temperature, checking if you’re breathing normally, soothing your cries, and encouraging you to finish your 60ml bottle. You kept crying when we try to put you down in your crib so your father and I took turns carrying you and rocking you to sleep.

We slept again with one eye open (of course, not literally) and it felt like you were 1-month old again. Since month 3, we had been successful in sleep-training you that we started to enjoy the adult bed to ourselves again. The success of our sleep training allows us to sleep through 4-5 hours before you would wake up for a night-time feed. I remember that during the first 2 months, you slept in your portabed between us. Last night, even if you slept in your crib, I got up every 20 minutes to check on your breathing.

And it sucked because we can clearly see the change in energy levels. Normally, you’re a bubbly little baby but last night, you felt too weak to even smile. And it sucked more because we don’t know why you had a low-grade fever but it could be that I passed on some of the viruses from my nasty sore throat to you. Or maybe something in the outside air. I don’t know. Or maybe the teething phase has begun. It’s good that we have a checkup coming up this week so Dra.CTP can check on you.

Normally, these small things can trigger crying fits in me. I used to be a very dramatic and emotional person. There were moments when I feel my soul go up in flames and then cool down. There were moments that I turn to ice (when I’ve had it with a difficult person, for instance) and moments when I scare myself too much because of overthinking.

Last night, I felt guilty and worried to the point of asking if it was my fault that you had a low-grade fever. I wondered if, as a mother, I should cry because my kid is not feeling well and I don’t know what caused it. But then I told myself, hey, it’s just sinat. It’s not even full-blown flu or high-grade fever. You seemed uncomfortable but you didn’t seem to be in any physical pain. You’re just too tired.

So I told myself I should stop the dramatics and just focus on the tasks at hand—monitoring your body temperature, acting quickly, and trying not to think too much. I guess it’s the writer in me that keeps on dramatizing things. Your father kept on telling me, “He’s going to be fine. It’s just fever.” And then I told myself, “You’re doing well. You got this.” I realized what kind of mother I want to be---like my mother, who always has this "I got this" and "Can do" attitude on things. 
I want to be the kind of mother who, despite being scared shitless sometimes, knows what to do next and how to act quickly.

I'm saying this because I know of one auntie who, sometimes, gets too emotional that she thinks she can't do anything to help her children become better versions of themselves. I don't want to be the kind of mother who judges other mothers and adds to their worries. I'm just saying that seeing how my parents used reverse psychology and mad project management skills to influence their children, I want to be the kind of parent who actively participates in shaping the future of her child.

There's a time to be emotional and be ever so grateful for being a parent. But there is also a time when you just need to act, act fast, and get things done. This is the first time your father and I had to take care of a baby with a low-grade fever and I think we did well. We have mad project management skills too! Now that we know what to do when this happens again, I won't be this praning anymore.

And this morning, before your father and I left the house to run errands, the sinat is gone and you’re back to being the Milk Guzzler, catching up for the loss of appetite the other day so you can resume the position of “The Fat Kid Inside The #HouseOfDerla”


xoxo,


Update (as of March 29, 2018): Changed my codename from Queen Bitch (QB) to Tiger Mom (TM).
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"I'm a first-time mom. I underwent CS 15 months ago to a baby girl. 

And yes, I planned to exclusive breastfeed my baby as much as I could. She was 3.2kg at birth, Unli latch 24/7. At 6weeks, she weighed only 3.8 kg. After a month, she only gained to 4.1 kgs. I was a bit worried about her weight since I knew that she must gain at least 600grams a month. 

When she was 3mos and a half, she got colds for the first time so we went to her Pedia. She was 4.4kg then.

I had my electric pump, but I can only pump at least 2oz per session. I knew it was not suitable for her consumption. So we decided to seek help. 

She started to mixfeed with Enfamil Gentlease right away and now we just shifted her to Similac Gain Plus. 

As of Feb28, she's already 9 kgs, taller than average, though a bit slim but she is within normal range for her age. At first, I got frustrated since I really wanted to EBF her.

I cried, thinking I was not giving her enough. But it came to my mind, with the support of my dear husband, that I'm doing a great job as a mom. It doesn't make me less of a mother doing mixfeeding, as long as I'm giving her all the best care and love I could offer. I will still breastfeed her until she self-weans and until the last drop.

It's not just about the breast. It's pure love.

~  Marie Antonette
This entry was submitted by Kalisha Kring as part of an online promo for the Mixed Feeding Moms PH.


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"I gave birth 11 months ago. I have prepared myself for an exclusive breastfeeding journey, read all the books, joined most of the breastfeeding groups here on Facebook, and took all the galactogogues even before giving birth. 

Hardcore breastfeeding mommy ako kumbaga. Then came my delivery, it was not an easy normal delivery. I stayed 14 hours, did Unang Yakap and early latching.

At first, I thought I was producing less, so unli-latch talaga kami sa hospital. Pati hanggang paguwi. Second night, I observed LO having bouts of inconsolable cries. I thought it was just kabag as my mom says. Third night, ganoon pa din. No sleep at all. Zombie mode. Unli-latch pa din. I even increased my malunggay capsule dose. Malunggay to all my meals. I even have M2, but none of them worked. 

It was day 4 of my son when I noticed he became yellowish. And noticed yellow to orange stains on his diaper. I knew there was something wrong. It was also his 1st checkup.

My ever supportive Pedia says he didn't gain weight, as losing weight the first week is normal but to a certain measure only. He was crying most of the time, if not sleeping while latching.

I know mali talaga, siguro, nakakatulog na lang siya kasi napagod na siya kaka-latch, and wala pa ding milk. I tried pumping, patak lang. I know hindi basehan ang pumping to gauge milk...pero patak? Grabe lang. Then Pedia recommended observing if he's giving me enough wet diapers and mawala jaundice and mag gain ng weight kasi nga pinupush ko ang breastfeeding.

Pero come to think of it, my baby is too fragile to be dehydrated that much. It was also the day I started formula. I cried when I fed him a bottle. I really cried. Parang postpartum depression crying ganoon. Kasi nga I felt too bad, na its a failure.

Parang after feeding parang milagro, he can sleep soundly, nawala ang crying inconsolably, unti-unti nawala ang paninilaw. 

Pero siyempre, I didn't give up my breastmilk. And I realized, hey, I'm not a bad mom. I feed my baby. Regardless if it's formula or breast milk.

As of today. He is 11 months old, he can consume about 15 oz of formula, while unli-latch pa din sa akin. He is gaining weight and super bibo baby. We are practicing Tamang Kain. And LO is kind of eating na din. Yehey!

At first, I pray to breastfeed him for at least 1 week, para sa colostrum, kahit colostrum lang kako para healthy baby ko. At 1-week nag-stabilize supply ko, dumami ang milk, so sabi ko, please hanggang 6 weeks, just before he has his vaccine, para healthy pa rin siya. Then hanggang 3 months po sana madami pa milk ko tapos ok na...hanggang sa 6 months po tapos mag solids na si LO, pero since I am still milking, sige na.. hanggang mag self-wean na lang si LO. I will still continue our mixed feeding journey...until the last drop.

Fed is best. Again, motherhood is not just milk.

 ~Aidelenn Wong-Bajandi
Founder of Mixed Feeding Moms PH

This entry was submitted by Kalisha Kring as part of an online promo for the Mixed Feeding Moms PH.



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"I mixfeed as soon as my baby came out. I was confident that I could breastfeed my baby. I was leaking milk when I was transferred to my room. So when they roomed-in my baby I tried to feed him.

The problem was he couldn't latch. My OB, baby's Pedia, the nurses helped me but he just couldn't. I didn't have a pump because I was so confident I could do it. 

So we bought formula milk. I continued leaking, tried to breastfeed everyday. Another problem was my pump came in a week after so my supply dropped but I was still happy that I could give him my milk. Hard work paid off when he was 5 weeks old he learned to latch! I was the happiest Momma! Ten months after, we still MF. I'm thinking of quitting soon but I will just let baby decide."

~ Tens Ogbinar Celis
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"My mixed feeding story began soon after my LO's first few days. As we all know, karamihan sa atin, milk will only start flowing on the 3rd day after birth.

Pero pina-try ko na siya mag-latch after 8 hours ng pagkapanganak niya. Once nag-start na ang milk production, I tried breastfeeding him. The first few days were a struggle. Just like other moms, praning ako na baka he is not getting enough milk. I talked to my friends na EBF, they were encouraging and frustrating at the same time. The pressure was on!

But then I have read that stress will cause problems with the milk production, so I started supporting my lo's feeding with formula. And now he's 3 months old, as long as I can, latch lang ng latch, pump din ng pump kahit tig 4 oz lang ang nakukuha. 


Photo by Marla Mae Centeno

Formula kapag si hubby ang nagbabantay. And all is well!

To all mommies na MF or FF sila ng babies, do not let others judge your love for your LO based sa type of feeding na ginagawa niyo.


All love!

~Marla Mae Centeno
This entry was submitted by Kalisha Kring as part of an online promo for the Mixed Feeding Moms PH.



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1st Time Mom
Baby Boy
2 Months old
Emergency CS


"I gave birth 2 months ago and my son's birthweight was 2.5kg. Pasang-awa ang timbang niya but I told myself na 'babawiin namin ni baby ang timbang niya via EBF."

Unang Yakap was done right away so ang saya-saya ko kasi nasimulan na agad ang breastfeeding journey namin.

I ate a lot of galactagogues and drank A LOT  of fluids every day. I also had a weekly lactation consultation and massage with a Lactation Counselor for 3 consecutive weeks. I took Moringga 3 times a day together with GI Norm (domperidone). But despite all these efforts, my baby still cries inconsolably.

Awang-awa ako sa kanya na every time na maglalatch siya eh iiyak siya out of frustration then makakatulog na siya dahil napagod na siya sa pag-latch at pag-iyak. Akala ko dati kaya siya nakakatulog dahil nabusog na siya---maling akala.

So days went by na ganoon kami at napapansin namin ng family ko na parang pumapayat si LO pero in denial ako kahit pa nakikita na ng mga mata ko ang visible bones niya.

In denial kasi ang taas ng faith ko sa benefits ng breastfeeding and for me, how can an EBF go wrong?My mom suggested na magstart na kami ng formula kasi mukhang kulang ang gatas ko but I didn't listen and still pushed for EBF.

And then the pedia check-up happened.

From his birthweight of 2.5kg then 2.1kg (6 days after birth) ay bumagsak siya sa 1.8kg (24 days old)! Iyak ako sa loob ng clinic! What have i done to my son??!! All I want is to give my son the BEST pero bakit ganito??

Nanganib ang buhay ng anak ko dahil sa kagustuhan kong i-EBF siya! Sa timbang niyang 1.8kg ay literal na buto't balat siya. Sobrang nakakaawa at nakakatakot.

My 1st pedia prescribed formula milk para makahabol kami sa timbang ni baby. Eventually, lumipat kami to a new pedia at nakukulangan siya sa basta formula lang kaya she prescribed vitamins and I'm glad that we have a new pedia na mas tutok sa baby ko. Thanks, doc!

From July 1 na 1.8kg naging 2.8kg (July 20) na si baby. He gained 1 kg in just 19 days! Thank, God! Malayo pa kami sa average weight ni baby para sa edad niya but I'm glad beccause we are gaining weight and we are even surpassing the ideal 30g weight gain per day. Now, double chin na siya, full cheeks na, sleeping well na, and with adequate urine output and BM. We also noticed happier na ang disposition niya now, unlike dati na lagi siyang umiiyak. 

I talked to my lactation counselor, we figured out the reason kung bakit under-supplier ako despite EVERYTHING that we did. The reason was I had a breast excisional biopsy sa both breasts 7 years ago and malaki ang possibility na may mga damaged milk ducts ako.

It was heartbreaking to know the fact na di ko pala talaga maa-achieve ang EBF sa anak ko kahit anong gawin ko. Buti na lang at naimbento ang formula milk kaya may pantustos ako sa nutritional needs ni LO dahil nga under supplier ako. Pero kahit under supplier ako I am still blessed kasi may BM ako kahit papaano and I am giving my LO the best BM that my body can offer.

Photos by Zhy Permejo Guinto

EBF is ideal (my heart is yearning for it even until now) but don't push for
it kung talagang di kaya lalo na kung manganganib na ang buhay ng baby mo. Being a good mother doesn't solely depends on how you feed your baby. Being a good mother is being able to decide for the BEST interest of your child.

Therefore, I must say that Fed is Best <3

~ Zhy Permejo Guinto
This entry was submitted by Kalisha Kring as part of an online promo for the Mixed Feeding Moms PH.


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"My mixed feeding story began when my lo was 8months old. Alam ko may milk ako pero feeling ko parang hindi sapat para kay baby, feeling ko hindi siya na bubusog. And sabi din sakin ng nurse, mahina daw ang ewan, nakalimutan ko na kasi hindi daw tumataba lo ko... kaya napa isip ako bakit hindi ko nalng i-try i-mixed feed ang baby ko...bakit ko susundin ang mga tao sa paligid ko na dapat breastmilk lang...eh ang gusto ko mag kalaman at maka dede ng marami ang anak ko... pero still, breast milk kami kapag nasa kwarto at matutulog lalo na pag gabi din, kapag nasa labas formula milk kami..

~ Marlette Luz Valdez Fulay
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"My mixed feeding story journey started when my LO ha eczema at almost 2 months old. In the first place, ayoko talaga because breastfeeding is the best for baby nga but pedia says makakatulong naman siya and para sa ikakabuti so I decided to go for the better.

Now nakikita ko yung skin ni LO gumaganda so I decided again to continue until now and I believe that all we want is what's good for our babies whether it's formula fed or breastfed.

~ K A R L A
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"Mixed feeding kami ni lo for 3months and a half na. Working mom ako and hindi ganoon kalakas supply ko para makapag-stash ng madami.

That’s why kapag nasa work ako, formula fed siya ng kapatid ko na nagaalaga sa kanya. Pero while nasa work ako, palagi pa rin akong nagpapump kahit once or twice a day para hindi magstop yung milk production ko. Then paguwi ko sa gabi, unli-latch na kami ni baby. 


Kita sa picture kung gaano lang kadami output ko. Swerte na maka 4oz in 1 pump. Pero hindi parin ako susuko! Ahahaha! Hanggat may gatas may pagasa!

~ Crizia Eugenio
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"My mixed feeding journey began almost 8 months ago when LO was still a newborn. I had ZERO milk when we came home from the hospital, which frustrated me a lot.

Having a friend who almost lost her baby due to dehydration secondary to breastfeeding issues, I was extremely paranoid and I knew I had to supplement right away.

My LO's pediatrician didn't actually allow me to buy formula for him because she wanted me to push through with exclusive breastfeeding, but my instinct told me that he was not getting enough milk.

Photo by Rachele Ranet-de Sagun

Without hesitation, we bought formula milk for him in spite of his pediatrician's objection. It turned out to be the best decision since my breast milk came 4 days after giving birth. 

I struggled with low milk supply all throughout but my LO has been thriving happily being mixed fed. What I love about mixed feeding is that my LO gets the best from both worlds--nutrition from both breastmilk and formula :)

Photo by Rachele Ranet-de Sagun
I may not be gifted with abundant breastmilk, but what matters to me is that my LO is well-fed, happy and healthy."

~ Rachele Ranet-de Sagun
This entry was submitted by Kalisha Kring as part of an online promo for the Mixed Feeding Moms PH.







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"My mixed feeding story began 10 months ago. I know I have enough milk for her but it was my choice. Yes, I did some research before she arrived. I saved tons of infographics of do's and don'ts. I asked breastfeeding friends what to expect. Then she came and it was not as easy as I thought it would be.

May times na iyak siya nang iyak, pinipilit ko pa din sa akin siya dumede. In denial ako sa gatas ko. I keep telling my self that my milk is enough because that's what they said.

But she's gaining weight poorly that's why I decided to supplement her with formula milk and it was the best decision I made. We sleep peacefully at night and no more forever-crying baby. I stopped believing what everyone thinks is correct and started believing my instinct. It may sound cliché but Fed is indeed the Best.

~ Kalisha Kring
This entry was submitted by Kalisha Kring as part of an online promo for the Mixed Feeding Moms PH.



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Dear Peanut,

Happy 4th month, son! Wait, what? It’s been 4 months already? You know what, I don’t really remember because much of it was a blur. Probably due to the few hours of sleep. Yeah so, I think it would be great to discuss the things that we have learned so far in our parental journey.

1. Babies grow up fast. Initially, you were just the size of my forearm. Now, you’re like 17 pounds.  We cannot lift you with one hand anymore. Or maybe because you’re just fat. On the positive side, I get to work out my arms.

2. Breastfeeding is not as straightforward as we thought it would be. From day 1, you never really latched onto your mother. The doctors, nurses, midwives, your grandmothers, and the whole fucking town participated in trying to get you to breastfeed. We all failed miserably, including you.

3. You need to understand why babies cry. Aside from being hungry, which is like 80% of the reason why they do, it could also be that the baby is hot, cold, wet, dirty, bored, sleepy, lonely, scared, or not feeling well. Yeah, but I feel sometimes I have to be a fucking psychic to figure out what you want. I needed to consult a flow chart to keep things smooth and logical. That failed miserably as well.

4. You will be forced to learn new skills. Aside from holding you, I needed to learn a bunch of other things like feeding, bathing, and changing your nappies.  Although I think my favorite skill is trying to put you to sleep. You see, when you are sleeping that’s also the time we get to sleep and do other things. I think I have developed a bunch of dance moves when I’m trying to rock you back to slumberland.  

These are just some of the things that I have personally experienced in your first 120 days. It is tiring, frustrating, and a bit scary. But in general, it is fun and exciting. Mainly because we get to make fun of you and your fat ass can’t do anything about it.  XD


xoxo,



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