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Dear, Peanut,

People are asking if we’re back, Yeah, I guess we’re back! Aww, yiz.

We’re back in Manila and it’s almost the same since I have left more than 2 years ago. I have already lowered my expectations to avoid disappointments. I don’t want to be one of those balikbayans who continuously compare their home country and rant about it all the time.

You see, even if our country is not first-world and a lot of improvements in many sectors still need to be done, at the very least, here you can eat your favorite food. Pork is always on the menu and most of the stuff you eat won’t set your ass on fire.

There is a minimal language barrier since you will be speaking in your native language. Our health card will include maternity benefits, which will save us a bunch on your birth and check-ups.

Our family and friends are here eagerly awaiting your arrival. :)

You see son, it’s not so bad.  Life is all about perspective.

Regards,



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Dear, Peanut,

Good day.

It’s Father’s Day today. Yeah, so I had a few greetings from the people who already know you exist.

Your mother got me a gift. It’s a briefcase style laptop bag. I guess it's high time that I stop using backpacks at work as it makes me look juvenile. Though my face has remained almost same for the past 10 years. :)

They say women become mothers once they know that they are pregnant. Men become fathers at the time they see their children for the first time.

I know you already exist. I can see you during ultrasounds and hear your heartbeat. I get excited when I see you during our monthly check-ups though I don’t get giddy as much as your mother.

It's fine, maybe I’ll feel that way when you come out. I don’t know, it's my first time and there is no user manual on how children work and on how to be a parent just like in life.

Oh well, I guess I’ll soon find out in the next few months, until then kid.

Regards,






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Dear Peanut,

I read that sometimes, fathers can feel left out during pregnancy because the ties are stronger between mother and baby. I mean, literally, the umbilical cord connects us. And even when it's cut, it connects us forever.

This is why (according to LMO) mothers feel if there's something wrong with their children, even if they don't tell. Apart from lukso ng dugo. Probably why I can't keep secrets from your Lola Mommy, hehehe. Remember how she "sensed" that we're about to say that we're pregnant even before we called them?

So I told SC that you two should have a Father and Son bonding session every night, even before you pop out. I think we started this routine at #10Weeks.

Every night, while lying in bed before sleeping, SC would place a hand on my tummy and talk to you. He always ask me, "Ano sasabihin ko?" and I would slap him (light lang, but minsan napapalakas because he tells you nonsense all the time, hahaha) and tell him to think.

Sometimes, he would tell you about the things he did during the day, what he ate (especially if it's something spicy), and found on Facebook. Random things.

Of course, you don't understand all these yet so it's actually more for me. But he would sometimes rub my stomach and I would yell, "Earthquake!" because that's probably the sensation you feel with all the vigorous movement. It became an inside joke that every now and then, he would do it and we would yell "Earthquake!" Even in the womb, he has started to troll you, hahaha.

Father and Son

Two weeks ago, we saw Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 2 in the cinemas. Not really a fan of the franchise but I'm a huge fan of the OST. I've become super obsessed with the song Father and Son by Cat Stevens. So I told SC to practice this and play it to you using his new electric guitar.

Check it out below. :)



P.S. Earthquake!! I just rubbed my tummy and disrupted your home, did you feel it? :)

Love,






Update (as of March 29, 2018): Changed my codename from Queen Bitch (QB) to Tiger Mom (TM).
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Supreme Commander (SC)

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SC hails from the Philippines, particularly the “Upper East Side” (Antipolo) but is currently working in Ortigas. He trains and joins Spartan races and other obstacle runs. If he’s not working (or working out), he plays the guitar and trades stocks. He strives to be the “very best no one ever was” and believes that if you want the prize, you have to pay the price. He still dreams of becoming a billionaire one day and eventually, Batman.

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Kath C. Eustaquio-Derla is a journalism graduate from the University of Santo Tomas in Manila, Philippines. She wrote Bedroom Blog by Veronica, a relationship blog for Cosmopolitan Philippines from 2009 to 2011, which covers most of her single dating life. In 2015, she published her first book Before I Do. She’s passionate about coffee, red wine, books and Mad Men. She stopped collecting hearts when she got married in 2013 and went back to collecting Archie Comics ever since. She's a self-proclaimed 'Tiger Mom" because she's from UST.

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